When a bachelor whom I was coaching (I'm a professional matchmaker) asked me about how and when to kiss a woman for the first time, I suggested he do it the same way my date did.Don't wait until the end of the date for lip contact; go for it mid-date.The casual sweeping of her shoulders as you help her with her coat, or her response when you brush against her hand in the popcorn bag or touch the small of her back as you guide her to the table provides plenty of clues.If she pulls away at all, then slow down a bit and take some more time.
You may not know this, but a first kiss can actually predict the chemistry and the sexual excitement of both the kissers.
A few years ago, I went on a first date with a guy whom I met at a friend's birthday party.
He was cute, we were having fun and it was a fairly standard first date.
I was a little taken aback, but pleasantly surprised.
It was one of the best first kisses that I have ever experienced.