Excuse me while I digress and delete the profile of a God-fearing scammer who just messaged me. Before I tell you about my week and explain the wine with a straw, let’s share some Passover-themed matzo brei . Dating Adventures Since this blog has a focus on dating, I’ll start with a review of current dating prospects. A’s email address is his name, it was easy to Google him. I’ll tell you IF/WHEN there is anything worth reporting.I like to add chopped fresh spinach or chard to the mixture before cooking. On Tuesday, after deleting and reporting two Coffee Meets Bagel scammers, I “matched” with Mr. He sent a clever opening question and we bantered a bit (my favorite) while I skillfully directed our conversation to an in-person meeting over a glass of wine (no, this is not the straw story). Even if this date goes nowhere, I’m enjoying a feeling of HOPE.Well, I never really thought I would write this blog. I decided to cool down and wait 24 hours before I blurted it all out here. So, for starters, I have had two of the most amazing men in my life and two wonderful long term relationships in my life; I count myself super grateful and blessed.Been doing the online dating thing for about 3 months now. I loved these men to pieces and they loved me back. ) “You’re sure are picky for a fat woman.” You bet your ass I am! I would MUCH rather be alone and lonely then with some dickhead and lonely. I know you big girls like the big one’s” Whoa, there stud.But when you ask around, no one cops to having used them.
No, it’s not a new trend in drinking and in case any horrified sommeliers are wondering, my straw is not even made from glass. If you know me, please don’t ask me about this date. A could revoke me before we meet or we could have a one-date relationship. ) I almost wrote it all and sent it out last night, but I decided I need to cool off first.Truly amazing men who were great friends, fantastic supporters of mine and some of my best cheerleaders for all of my crazy business ideas. It seems that most mature men don’t seem to even care about my body type. Maybe because I am so straight forward on my ads so then only men who are feeling me, reply?And, for the most part, the online dating adventure has been exactly that. But, there have been a few interactions that have gone really really bad. As in “you fat bitch” and one that I reported to a friend of mine (who is a San Jose PD detective) that basically said I would be better off dead. Now, I am certain that this sort of thing happens to women of all sizes and shapes. Well, “you fat bitch” probably only happens to fat women. You can be a size 2 and get plenty of hate mail and comments. There are way too many amazing, uplifting people in the world to spend your days with those ass hats. And, if you find yourself being harassed online via email or message or texts, just keep replying with the words ” Please stop emailing me.” Or “Please stop texting me.” Be clear. And, when you get someone who is being rude via text or your cell phone – do NOT delete their telephone number from your phone.It is so fascinating how one moment someone is basically begging me to go on a date with them and then the next minute, after I politely turn them down, that it turns so ugly. (“Eat a cheeseburger” memes come to mind.) When you are fat woman online, you get fun stuff like this: (And, I do believe in full disclosure. Just change the name in your contact to “Dick head. He made threats to me” or something like that so you have their telephone number and you NEVER mistakenly answer their call.Onuki was 15 when he had his first experience with online dating, getting together with a girl who he’d met on a gaming site. “We met at a coffee shop, and right away she started talking about sex.